BlackRing @ BlackRing @midwest.social

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We know.

I used to, my wife's snoring made it hard to get a word in edge wise, so I stopped.

Good.

You know, tRump might be keeping it in his pocket for when he really wants to kick something off and have an excuse to go full martial law fash. Not saying it would for sure work, but he (someone in his circle) could be thinking that.

Ugh. At least it's a good reminder to stock up on .45-70. Or something, I dunno.

Just wanted to say wow, so much of that sounds familiar!

As far as medication, I have not decided yet. This is all recent, within the last year. Therapy has been helping a lot for my current state, but ADHD isn't the focus. Recovering from burnout is.

I haven't looked into anything you've mentioned.

I have been described as, and willing describe myself as, a good person with a capacity for kindness. I am not nice in much of what that means.

I think my political stances sometimes highlight that. I will willingly punch nazis given the chance. No, that's not hyperbole. I have no tolerance for bigotry. I lost a good friend who became a cop, and then said some questionable but not outright hateful things in the aftermath of George Floyd's murder.

A flawed but not altogether useless analogy is I am not the guy who waves someone on at a stop sign when it is that person who is supposed to yield. I have no patience for it, nor do I have patience for it happening the other way around.

When I recognized that a now good friend wasn't so harsh to me out of spite or hate but out of personal struggle, I wanted to know more, and now we not only became good friends, but we are to each other among the very few people we talk openly with about therapy and how it's really going. We both understand and respect the need to break down the stigma of seeking help with mental health. We had both peered into the void.

But in public, I wind up ignoring a lot of people simply from wearing headphones and wanting nothing to do with any of it.

"How does this (dress, shirt, whatever) look on me?" My wife gets the truth, like it or not.

I could go on, and am willing to try to answer any questions.

I have a high IQ as well as ADHD and Autism.

Out of context, scoring as high as I did really meant next to nothing. In the context of the diagnoses I received later in life, definitely made sense, and helped color a picture painted in two solid days with a psychologist.

Somehow, I think it's important that the IQ test I took was not called an IQ test to me until after. Like, I knew I was in for tests, but more broadly told what things were about.

As a student, I had a science teacher who had been teaching many years, tell my mother he had never seen a student think in the manner I did. I was doing exceptionally well in class, but did not exceed in the fashion that would get me into an ivy league school, which at the time was supposed to be a goal. My father graduated MIT.

There are times when it's great. When I can focus on something, I can learn a lot and get very good at it. However, I spent decades with two obstacles I could never get myself past: the inability to keep that focus or control it, and the inability to even understand other people enough to try to get along with them long-term.

The result is I am just now, at 41, starting to figure out what I want to do with my life after way too long in a profession I should never have entered, and burned out of twice. And by burn out I do not mean tired and sad, I mean hospitalization.

In summary, it can be pretty great, but in my case it's fraught with difficulty as well.

Same! I have no idea what wolfraisin's on about, but I am still listening!

Worked in my yard today. Started dethatching, with a rake not a machine, hopefully finish tomorrow. Going to overseed with dutch white clover.

I am going to wake up sore tomorrow, but I think it's worth it.

I mean... I like mine more cryptic. "This machine makes folk music"

That's an amazing idea!!!

Soul Calibur 3!!! Yeah!!!

I mean... There were no injuries or fatalities. It's a rocket test site. Not great, but I would think even with the best safety practices something eventually goes bang at a place like that.

Change, rights, progress, come from and are reinforced out of four boxes. Soap box. Ballot box. Jury box. Cartridge box.

We are at jury box, it seems. I really hope the tide turns and we start winning. That last box is terrifying.

If I remember correctly, he'd been "run over" a bunch of times as a kid.

I vaguely remember Trump briefly trying to be speaker of the house at some point, or at least talking about it.

Happy pi day!!

Yes!

I hope NATO does get involved. Not the same way Trump hopes though...