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  • It (and I CANNOT POSSIBLY stress this enough) is not that simple. Breasts get in the way more then a dick ever will. Softer skin, yes, which also means more prone to abrasions, bruises, and snagging on things. Some people might feel less threatened, but also, if you're not classically attractive, you're often either invisible, or a target for ridicule. Media will continue to show you "what you should be", and even if you match the body image, it's never enough.
    \ There are good things about being a woman, or transitioning to be one, I'm not going to list them. I assume you probably have other reasons to consider such a course of action (assuming that's even something you're considering; if not, never mind 😅)

  • I mean it's pretty much been that the whole time... Idk I guess I'm just tired of people saying basically "Well here's an obvious solution that you clearly missed because you're automatically lazy and/or stupid if you're from the US, and especially if you don't have the financial solubility or high-demand skills to easily expatriate or you're disabled, just get up off your lazy corn-fattened ass and go yell at the people who give the US military their orders. Oh, you say you tried and nothing happened? You must have been an utter and complete failure. You deserve this then."
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    \ Not that that's what is being said precisely, but it hits the same notes. And DicJacobus, this isn't aimed at you, but at the original comment in this thread. Unless you agreed with them and I misread your tone

  • It rather seems to me that you're only responding to the generalized ideas I'm trying to present as they relate to your own specific experience, and using that as a way to discount or invalidate the concept entirely. I don't see the point in going to bat so hard for this. I'm not telling you how to raise the humans you've chosen to be responsible for, I'm just saying that's another kind of relationship. Relationship anarchy is very specifically not "free love", which clearly wasn't so free anyways. Love is free, sure, but these days so many people's time is money; taking the time to choose what relationships you participate in, and what that participation looks like, can't possibly be a bad idea, and that's the idea with RA.

  • I literally just can't wrap my AuDHD brain around professional formatting. I'll probably use AI to take the paper I wrote while ignoring archaic and pointless rules about formatting and force it into APA or whatever. Feels fine to me, but I'm but going to have it write the actual paper or anything.

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